by Bob Kenny
The transformative power of money--how
it changes us and our world--is a recurring theme in this
issue. It is also a recurring theme in our lives. Each time
we enter a new stage in our own development--getting married,
having children, retiring from work--we are confronted with
a new set of questions and dilemmas regarding money and
wealth.
For most people, ethical questions about money
manifest themselves in small ways during their everyday
lives. For example, the decision to buy a second television
set or a new DVD player is not typically regarded as a large
moral dilemma. As a result, it is easy to forget that others
are watching and learning from us as we make such seemingly
innocuous decisions. And often, the more money we have,
the more closely we are being watched.
When Dr. Coles's grandson started
counting the number of television sets he owned, an innocent
child's game suddenly became an adult's ethical dilemma:
what do we do when we have more than we need? Thus begins
a reflective process that, potentially, can have an impact
far beyond the lives of a thoughtful grandfather and his
curious grandson.
At More Than Money, we hear stories like these
all the time. The story line is often the same: something
triggers us to think about the power of money in our own
lives and we quickly turn to thinking about how that power
affects those around us. Clearly, money is not transformational
in a vacuum. But money can be transformative when someone
we love asks a simple question that leads us to wonder:
why do we have more than we need? The impact money has on
us and on the world occurs in and because of relationships.
Money changes us precisely because it changes others.
As we are thoughtful about money, we come
to make the connection between our personal well-being and
the conditions of a larger society. Ethical dilemmas like
Dr. Coles's will not allow us to think of the impact of
wealth on just a personal level-because for every television
we buy, there is a grandson right behind, asking questions
like, "Grandpa, how come you have so many televisions?"
Bob Kenny, Ed.D., is the executive director
of More Than Money. For more than twenty years, he has worked
with individuals, communities, and organizations to identify
and address the gaps between their stated values and the
reality of their lives.